I've been lurking on your thread off and on and what you said hit me...I wanted you to know that my H said the EXACT same thing to me...about he's moved on so I need to do the same. I have not seen my H since July...we've texted but only about S12..I have a daughter getting married and a D17...a couple of weeks ago was my 25 wedding anniversary...spent alone....I've done everything you've done...probably worse..I would take Giant steps backwards...
I am getting a life now...I go out more..I'm really trying to get my H and OW out of my head and yes..it is sooooo hard..after all we've been with them for so long..I find I do much better with no communication..My H doesnt see my children hardly at all..it's truly his loss...
I was a mess for soooo long...I really think I"m much better even though I have setbacks..they're just not as bad.
Take Care....Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
