I would get the DR book. I am pretty sure that DR is basically an updated version of DB. I own both but have only read DR. Anyone else know if I am correct about that?
I have both, and I feel like DB is more about the process that MWD uses in her therapy, while DR is aimed more at the person who wants to start working on DB'ing his relationship.
I liked DR a lot more than DB.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement