Originally Posted By: undrdg
To which she responded and i quote :

" I love only you "

Alteast thats what i thought she said. But she def said I love you.


If that is the case, then she needs to cut off contact with the OM and agree to a transparency plan. Unless you want to live in an open marriage...

Originally Posted By: undrdg
I spend the night with her cuddled in bed. Some sexual play but nothing can come of it since D came in the room. Lots of kissing and such.


Is she still involved with the OM at all? If so, why did you do this? Do you like sharing your wife with another man?

Originally Posted By: undrdg
Do you guys think she is cracking? She had the D papers this whole time and didn't ask me to sign. She might be waiting for something. I am not sure.


She is probably waiting for something; maybe OM is having second thoughts, maybe she is. She'll let you know what it is when the time is right.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."