From your posts it really sounds like a bad idea for you to see her again.
"I really enjoyed her." What's up with that comment? You should say "I really enjoyed myself". You talk about her as if she were a dog. It really doesn't sound that healthy for you especially since that one interaction had you taking a couple of shots.
You just made an excuse as to why it was okay for you to take the shots. The next thing you're going to do is explain why it's okay for you to drink again, then to kiss her, then to have sex with her.
I have a feeling this is going to fall on deaf ears but hey you're the adult right? You're the one who criticized everyone for not being a Stander right? You were the one who said when you are divorced you are still married to your covenant partner right? So technically you're going out with a M woman. Kind of like how you condemned your W for doing the same and calling her a harlot.
It's not so bad if it's just for friendship but who the hell are you fooling? Your post is like a little boy deep in a crush. It's up to you if you want to continue seeing her (which I have a feeling you're going to do no matter what anyone tells you). It just seems pretty unhealthy for YOU. But that's okay, I guess your Ds will think it's okay. Heck they're Mom's doing it any way.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.