Partly for her sake (because I felt for her getting hurt, to explain it wasnt her fault, that he just never got over me), partly so she wouldnt be a shadow on our R (as their work organisations are 'partners' so potential to be in contact).
I am a bit stunned by this. Had I taken my W back, I would have had no pity whatsoever for OM having a broken heart. Quite frankly, I would have been high with Schadenfreude. Especially if he had gotten the STD from her.
