Originally Posted By: Kettricken
Also, watch your vocabulary. I see repeated phrases like, "I was captivated by her, I shouldn't allow her to draw me in", etc. That betrays an attitude of powerlesseness relative to this woman that is neither mature nor attractive. I highly doubt you were just sitting there like a bump on a log, not responding, and it was all her. The same would be true of any repeat interactions. Own your own stuff.


This is why I feel like he's considering this woman as an escape hatch. You got swept up by one night of deep, meaningful conversation? It happens.

You are a grown adult and a moral agent. Own your feelings and take responsibility for your actions, both then and now.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."