Does anyone have any opinion about the post above.
She was obviously looking to talk about something.
Should I have pushed more?
No, I think you were okay.
If she says something like that again tonight, you might push for more: "It seems like you have something on your mind..."
That was a 180 for me -- my wife would start to say something, then say "never mind"; I don't let her get away with that any more, and ask her to tell me what she was thinking. It's never as bad as she thinks, either.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
