I think the marriage thing will come in time from BF. Right now, that would probably push him over the edge. He's crawling back, but that may be too much too soon for him.
If he thinks you are married, give him time then broach the subject w/him. Also, since you two are joined in property, the idea of a will is a good thing to consider getting done.
RTL PS - What is the web site you get the horoscopes from that you posted to Kalni? I may look to get them for myself as I find them interesting.