Pretty much that we have a number of court dates coming up over the next 8 weeks. Each one will cost about $4K in legal fees unless we come to agreement. So it came down to the point where I'm letting her know that I'm moving on with my life. I will not be her backup plan nor will I continue to pine and wait for her.

She hasn't made any move to change course nor gave any indication/desire to do so. I'm not sure even if she did, I would want to, but this is the final wake up call....

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13