Oh, and as far as the Gucci method, its ok - but I didn't do what I did to play head games or for a particular result. I'm no phony. That's the only part I don't like in that method, do x to get y reaction.
I did it because I needed to know I was still "marketable" in the words of my friend, because I thought he was cute, and because I wanted to see someone look at me as more than a sister. I'm human, too!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.