If your changes are genuine, he will notice. Bringing them to his attention may make it look showy and manipulative.
Oh, no I wouldn't bring it to his attention. I have already made strides to calm my temper and appreciate things more. He has noticed it but said "It just seems fake, that is not the real Rikki I have known for 10 years. No matter how much you change, I will see it as fake."
He isn't living here anymore and we only see each other about 45 min a week so I don't know when he would see my changes taking place.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month
