Kevin. Go on that social interaction. Talk, laugh, eat supper, get to know someone other then the memory of who your wife used to be, keep it in your pants.
Keep Db'ing. Advanced DB'ing. Become the master of the quick kid exchange. Quickly out the door with nothing more to say, than hello, goodbye, oh and d8 has h1n1. A couple more times of seing you all dressed up to go out. Finding out that you are talking with someone on the phone. Oh and that Kevin smile that she has seen in a long long time. And she is going to be wondering what is up with you. Give her the impression you are moving on down the road. In time when you are more confident in yourself and cocky, get flirty, and watch her trip over her own feet.
Think of it this way. If she really wanted out, kids or no kids, she would already be gone, D-I-V-O-R-C-E-D. But she is not; she hasn't; she let the damn thing lapse. Now you have the opportunity to give her a challenge. Try to Win Kevin back. She has challenged you for a year now. But you did'nt play the game right.
The quickest way to get her to turn her head your way is to give her the impression that she just got dumped. Nobody likes to get dumped, even those that have 1 or 2 on the side. Broken heart. Know the feeling? Do what WORKS.
And before anyone else chimes in that you are playing with someones elses emotions to win your wife back. Realize, just because you were in a 10 year relationship doesnt mean the person you meet is going to feel the same loving feeling your spouse felt for you for 10 years. Dating one person a couple times rarely leads to a golden anniversary, lucky if you get another date sometimes. You never know what they want, sex, free food, maybe they are using you to make someone else jealous. Happens all the time. This is life people play mind games all the time. You go out have fun expect nothing.
