Umm, so you just got to know this woman at the bar?

How long did you figure it took this life-changing, impactful "emotional connection" to be established Kevin? WAS at least take some time to get to know people generally before plunging into EAs or more.

Gotta be frank - seems to be you went LOOKING for something, probably in view of what had been a stressful sitch, and nobody's saying it was easy on you. I honestly don't think you're as "sorry" as you profess, part of you enjoyed reporting this.

GoBison is right. You had some ego boosting contact at a bar. So let it go. That's gotat be all there is to it.

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.