His complaints about our marriage were: I lacked respect for him, I had a short fuse and took it out on him, I was hard to talk to, I was opinionated and not very tolerable of other opinions.
Well, it sounds like working on your temper and learning to listen to people with differing opinions would be two good 180's to work on.
Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
So, is there a way to follow DR or DB while trying to fix the things he complained about AND know that he can/will see the changes made to me in an effort to become a better person?
If your changes are genuine, he will notice. Bringing them to his attention may make it look showy and manipulative.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
