In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

Ok, I am reading threads around here. (It is so hard to read and digest a book while chasing down two kids)

His complaints about our marriage were: I lacked respect for him, I had a short fuse and took it out on him, I was hard to talk to, I was opinionated and not very tolerable of other opinions.

So, is there a way to follow DR or DB while trying to fix the things he complained about AND know that he can/will see the changes made to me in an effort to become a better person?