WAW Using God

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Update:

Wife went to her church early to spend time by herself. Not long afterwards I got a voice mail apology for her comment and behavior (see above). But she also tried to explain how the OM at church actually helps her, as he answers questions that she has. She doesn't need him there, but she likes when he is. She doesn't expect me to understand that.

I told her she's just rationalizing but she said it's not that at all with regard to church.

Of course it wouldn't be, if the relationship with the OM hadn't crossed the line. She just doesn't get the fact that ANY contact is infidelity, no matter what the nature of it is. I don't care if they have the cure for cancer and must work together to produce it.