Over the weekend I did send her an email that said the following:

Wife,

It is coming up on 11 months since your decision to divorce. For much of the last year, I had believed in us, despite your action of filing. I believed that we would be able to rebuild our marriage into a loving one if we both worked on it. It’s difficult to be wrong in any situation, but especially for something so important.

While it was not the outcome we had wanted, following the discoveries and events over the past several weeks, I do accept that fact that we will not be able to renew the relationship.

With that said, I still believe that we both know better than any third party what is in the best interest for our boys and that we can come to agreement with the legal aspects co-parenting without having matters dragged into court for public view."

There was some more stuff related to legal/tactical stuff, but that was the gist of it. I had also attached a proposal for the points we needed to formalize (basically it was what we are currently doing). As of this morning, she still hadn't responded to it nor acknowledged that she got anything. Guess we're going to court on Thurs.....


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13