I think he is far from getting that. And that is my biggest fear. Not that he will cheat on me again, that I will end up in a relationship with a man that will be boring and stagnate.
Boring is not healthy for a relationship. Men can do boring, but women can not. I'm learning a lot and one thing I'm sure of is a bored woman is an unhappy woman who will look elsewhere for her excitement.
I still will hope he wakes up to this fact very soon. Maybe you should go on-line and purchase David Cunningham's e-book "The Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" and have H read it. He'll learn through that about how a bored woman will be one who leaves a boring man behind.
