Im sorry about the final D but happy it went smoothly.
When my first exh and I went to mediation it was the same way. We were both friendly and went in knowing what we wanted and the mediator was shocked. I have always had a decent relationship with exh to this day....sure some quirky things but all in all really good.
Now on to bigger and better for you VD.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!