That is one of the complaints that came up during an R conversation early on. She feels like I was pulling away from her emotionally and ignoring her -- which I probably was, thanks to the stress of my job and putting my energy into playing WoW -- and she's also a person who needs words of affirmation. So I say a simple "I love you" every so often.
It may be construed as pursuing, but it's also a 180 for me; my family was not emotionally expressive growing up, and my wife has worked on me in the past to tell her how I feel.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
