I think we all go through that. You learn the self preservation so well that when it comes time to let someone in, it is really hard.

I don't think it is so much about unlearning, but taking your time. Even going into a new relationship is going to require time and effort, so take things slow. Anyone who has ever been through this crapola will definitely understand.

You are doing fab!!!

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..