Ok...ok.....I am not sure that your "ideal" man exists on-line or elsewhere. You may want to lower your standards a tad. Surely there must be someone in between your ideal man and the woodcrafter or peptobismal.
I agree Jeff. I am sure I will find someone in the right ballpark. The most important things to me are fun personality, looks that I am attracted to (my type, not necessarily movie star), and interested in me for me and not for what he can get from me (sex only)...