Well it was so hard. I was doing so good the whole night. I was having fun with my friends. The night was going so good. There was no controversy. I was dancing away, socializing. It was great. But then after a few drinks it just hit me. He was over by the bar and I went up to him and asked him what's up. He said why are you being so mean to me?
Better answer:
"Gee, I'm certainly not trying to be. I'm sorry you feel that way. How'z your day going?"
And the rest of it would have NEVER happened.
Britt, DBing isn't difficult to grasp. But it DOES take an incredible amount of self-discipline, and self-restraint. If I could encourage you to learn ONE thing, it would be to not be REACTIONARY.
Yes, it's hard. It can also be done.
Puppy
P.S. If you get a chance, check out Rockedworld's and AFlowerGurlie's threads, for examples of how to stay strong and confident in the face of a wayward husband's button-pushing.
