grr, sorry about not seeing your story up top, don't know really what I was thinking, how did it go yesterday.
Remember, this is a nonemotional plan that has to be put in place, it was hard for me as with everybody to go against your instincts but that is exactly what you have to do.
It really clicked for me when I realized that if I do pursue and be the begging needy (unattractive) person that I would for sure lose her. Knowing this is when I switched gears and the sooner you do the better off you will be.
