Thanks so much everyone, for jumping in here with support.
I really am ok Snodderly, from the accident as well as everything else. I really don`t mind whether H even has regrets or not. I can see he`s a guy in pain and that there`s nothing I can do about that. I`ve dropped the rope and am moving forward on that front.
So glad of all the friendship here. And really want to keep in touch to see how you all are doing-in life as much as with DBing.
VH, I found your thread again-had forgotten about clicking on your link-and will post there soon. But I can see, you`re doing fine.
Soco, I often thinnk our H`s have a great deal of the same crazy going on "I loveyou/Ilove you not" want to let us go, and have fun themselves, but go crazy if they think anyone else might have us.
Snodderly, you do such great work here and spend so much time helping others, I`m really grateful you stopped by for me too.
The accident has been no bad thing. Nothing unhealable from it for anyone and yet, its given my hope for H a good shake, which it needed.