Donna--finding herself #37

[oldtimer]

This is a fun book: http://www.amazon.com/Blink-Power-Thinking-Without/dp/0316172324

And, it suggests that your first online impressions are probably worth taking seriously, lol.

P.S. There really is a point at which making one's present life about the past just becomes *tedious*. I mean REALLY tedious and boring. Maybe you are reaching that point :-)