So, I didn't talk to him again after the concert. I asked my daughter if she wanted to call and tell him goodnight. At first she said no, so we got ready for bed...then she said yes. We tried to call his cell once. He didn't answer so we went on to bed. As we are lying there (both kids are sleeping with me) the phone lights up three times in a row. He finally gave up and called my cell phone. The kids spoke with him briefly and then we hung up. I didn't talk to him except to say the kids were calling him and I didn't tell him I loved him.
This is so hard. He is my best friend, the one I go to with everything. I have spoken to him everyday since I was 19 years old.
After I clean the house today I am going to get started on DR. I still consider myself married and I still wear my ring. In his mind we are over and he is divorced. I am still in love with him and he just loves me because I take care of his kids. I am still praying things will turn around.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month
