New here, this is my story...

[TrentC]

Yes, I did fight; but one of the issues was that she wanted to see my emmotion, something I have done a damn good job of hiding over the last 2 months. I showed it, but also showed her that I am okay moving on; but prefer to fix the marriage. If there is a chance to fix it, then I want to fix it. If there is no chance at all, then she needs to file.

There are ways to show emotion other than what you chose. You let her push you into a confrontation.

I won't file on my own. I should have known better. I let my emmotions control me and convinced myself it was what I now wanted. It isn't. But I am closer to that then I ever have been.

Good luck, then. I'm not convinced that your approach will work, but you gotta do what you gotta do.