Hi Rocked As you know, I am having some time away from the board but I think that we are so alike in how we behave toward our H's. My belief is that we react the way we do because we have loved so deeply ... and the cut is so very painful to us. Everyone loves in different ways and to different degrees. I know that this is the most painful experience of my life and it's why I feel it so personally and want to put up a fight to keep my H. I am guessing that you feel the same way. Trouble is, reacting like this pushes them further away. I talked about it to my H on Saturday and he was quite open about that. Read more on my thread, if it interests you.
I am going to ask my C tomorrow evening if she has any advice in stopping me reacting the way I do - I shall pass her tips along, if she has any!
Take care of yourself.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
