Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

Then I get a text from w about dropping off the kids and if I cant handle them she would be willing to switch weekends. I was at the Doctors office when I got this message. I didnt want to rspond but mt emotions got the best of me and here is the convo that took place.

I wrote something like just left Doctors office youve no idea what Ive been thru this week. I hope you can look yourself in the mirror and be proud of the person youve become because I dont know who you are. You havent even bothered to see how im doing or find out about my test results?

She wrote"Remember this message the next time you have a breakdown. This is the reason I will never be with you ever again."

It got even worse from there with a couple of messages back and forth her last one stating.I guess you know how it feels now. u just see life as it is for you now. I tried to be there and got nothing in return."

Why the hell should she feel sorry for someone who tries to play the guilt card on her? Where do you get off talking to your wife like you're scolding a little girl?

The texted stopped and all conversation have been only about the kids. Back to square one. Ive been doing so well but I dont know how to move forward and act like nothing bothers me and that i shouldnt wonder were my w of 7 years shouldnt have some feeling of love and compassion.

As long as you feel that sense of entitlement, don't expect to get anywhere. I've said it 3 times now -- your wife is debating whether or not to get divorced from you; you need to tread lightly, and not pull crap like the text message you sent her to set that exchange off.

I know I shouldnt exspect that but I feel like im chasing something and I dont want to chase someone that doesnt even care about me anymore.

But you don't give her any reason to reconsider her decision; you keep trying to guilt her into feeling sorry for you and do things for you.