I spent Friday, Saturday and Sunday with my H at his father's funeral. My daughter flew in from out of town and both she and my son were wonderful at supporting their grandmothr and father. My daughter did confront my H about the affair-she didnt feel it went great. They both cried a lot. He said it happened because he didnt feel loved. (I have a valdidated these feelings and apologized for my part). He said he has no plan at this point--ie plan to divorce but needs time to think. He also told her the o