There's another issue that I may not have mentioned. She's been hanging out with another male old friend. He's a tattoo artist and lives about 50 miles away. She's been getting lots of "free" tattoos and hanging out a lot w/ him and his son.

She claimed, before the separation, that she was not attracted to him, but I'm no longer sure of this.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)