Sounds to me like things are going well for you, that's just awesome! Be patient and let him have the time he needs, keep doing just what you're doing. And always have faith that it'll work.
An update on me: My ex spent the weekend, we had a great time, and SHE brought up the subject of getting married again. I told her I want her to be sure it is what she wants and that we can keep taking things slow if she thinks that is best, that WHEN I propose to her again I want to do it right and have a lifelong relationship. She agreed that for now we will just take things as they come and deal with getting married WHEN we get to the right time.
My divorce ain't completely busted yet but almost there; she upped the timetable and is moving home this Thursday!
Ron
M: 47 W: 50 D: 19 S: 16 Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son) Married: 10/2/89 Divorced: 7/31/09 XW moved back home 11/12 Re-married 5/25/10