The only thing I can say positive here is at least W is not putting your daughters in the middle. This is very mature of her. She is protecting them. Once again you need to not think negative. She did not say she didn't miss you and she didn't say she did miss you. Yes, you should prepare for the worst, but at the same time hope for the best. Hope if all we have and one of my friends who is right now going through a divorce said "when you have lost hope then you know it is over" (her husband cheated on her twice in the course of a year, plus doing drugs, and a few other things).
Papers may be coming, but then again she might have heard some things from the lawyer that is making her rethink her options. Right now you are not sure what she is thinking, so don't focus on it.
Really try this week to focus on the positive. Force yourself to see some positive things in your life. The more you focus on the negative the more negative you will get, but if you start focusing on the positive (no matter how small), you will start bringing more and more positive to you. You may not get everything you want, but you will get more positives.
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