Do they have to leave to be a WAW?

[Awoken]

Thanks Karen for the replies; I'm clearly having a problem dealing him my guilt in this, and I need to get over it! It just that I realized that deep down I knew something was very wrong and I had been turning a blind eye to it. I'm awake to it now.

Yes, my MC is serving as an IC now, and I'm assuming that's the reason she has been asking to meet us individually. She sent me to my doctor to get some medicine to help sleep (W is jealous of that, but she has her drink and I'm keeping the pills away from her).

I have no intention of leaving the house. When wife hinted at it, I suggested that I could help her find an apartment for herself and help her move. She had no response. Right now, I've move all my clothes into the guest room closet, but my dresser is still in our bedroom. She's asked me twice to move it
(once if "she could help me move it"). I told her that I still consider it our room, and I don't want to move it. I haven't been sure I should move back in yet, so your word are helpful.

I'm pretty resentful about her "cake eating", and I want to figure out how to thwart that and still DB.

thanks again