Here's a point to your questions: somehow, by the end I managed to bring up her drinking (she had a drink in hand), and she came out and said that she had been open with our MC about it, and was trying to cut back. sigh. We are currently meeting with MC individually.
What was the MC's response to her "cut back" remark? Does the MC know what you've told about her years of secret drinking? I don't think you will have a healthy or happy marriage until she deals with her drinking issues. I also don't think that is a healthy environment for your kids either. If she is not willing to address her issues, have you thought about dealing with this yourself?
