This is Frank, whom we all care for. He can find enough reasons to flog himself, and be miserable, I refuse to give him advice that even remotely suggests he should do so.
He does have a right to feel the way he does, it is his mindset. He has done it for the last several years. Everything is sad or tainted with it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK