First things first, you wouldnt have let your boys see you feel bad for them, but you would have. Sometimes the all mighty Oz makes statements based on how they would like to believe they would have acted, reality is a very different thing. Not trying to piss on your fire here pirate, just pointing out that sometimes we speak of which we don't know and it comes off as demeaning.
You're wrong Ian. Go back anywhere in my posts once I kicked her out and find me a reference when I bemoaned my boys fate.
And for the record, I never think of myself as Oz, or some great sage guru.
When exactly did I piss in your Wheaties, brother?
You didnt piss in my wheaties.. .I am not wrong, you have never been where Frank is in that the signing of the papers and the finality of it all. You told him he was wrong for being sad, that is not right. As I said before, if you havent been where he is it is hard to say what you would or would not do. Kicking her out in no way is equivalent to signing divorce papers and you know that.
My point in all of it is that Frank has a right to feel the way he feels, everyone does. People look to you for leadership and in general you have the ability to empathize and not allow your own emotions to come into play with your posts. This time you did wrong. You said what you would do in a situation you have never been in.
You know that I of all people have never been afraid to point out when you do make a mistake. I didn't say it was on purpose, just that it was incorrect....
