Hey cuz, i agree with bworl, knowing this is what you want, he should have done it a long time ago and not dragged it out....hope we are both wrong however.

<< I will tell him it is a dealbreaker and until he does, I am "out".>>
Do you think threatening him with this will make him at least send an e-mail?
I am not a woman nor have I read any (self help) piecing or recovering from affairs books and therefore, I do not really understand this fixation on her. I say fixation because asking if she contacted him and then following that up with were you sad about it? Let's face it even if he was sad or disappointed, how could he possibly be honest about that?

I guess my experiences have changed me and made me slightly cynical.