I have come over here as you asked, but I am only making a quick visit and typing this post so as to 'bookmark' your thread for a read later.
I am good friends with Lotus who I think you know in the alternate universe. Get my email of her if you want and give me a summary of your sitch. It would really help get me up to speed.
I think we may already be 'friends' in the Alt universe in which case you should be able to cntact me anyways. I am off to bed now but I will just go check FB before I go
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength