Thank you again. Kalni, your 2X4 is spot on. I am going down cheeseless tunnels. It isn't working so I need to change course for sure. Also, thank you for your FB message. I'll be writing back soon.
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Men who are successful with women don't keep hanging around like you are.
gucci is correct. What I'm doing isn't working and isn't making her pursue me. I have to step away and be gone. She'll pursue me if she's truly interested. Right now, she has access to me whenever she wants me. I'm too responsive to her, I think.
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once I won his attention back, I never took him for granted again.
Gypsy laid out for me the way to be successful from a female vantage point. I have to deny her my attention and make her work to get it back.
In the meantime, I have to live for me and me alone. It is the old fears that are creeping back up and I need to be stronger, trust in another method, stay dedicated to myself and let things happen.
As Kalni said in her FB note to me, if I don't get myself right with things now, they'll end up hurting me in the future regardless if they are w/this girl or not.
Points heard and I'll be focusing on being much, much stronger and get back to working on me.
In the meantime, what do I do w/the "I miss you" responses I've been getting from her? What do I do if I'm invited to do something w/her and don't actually have plans? Act like I do and turn her down or accept her invite, go, have fun, stay a little bit and leave?
I'm asking so I'm prepared for these type of events when they come, because they have been showing up. She wants me to be around when she wants me and I need to get her to eventually move one way or another off the fence.
I'll need her to make a decision and I know that I'll have to be able to act and respond accordingly in order to force her hand.
