I think that is what I meant to say is don't pursue him. But also don't give him his cake and let him eat it to. If he wants nothing to do with you again after, you know that is exactly what you did. However, if the talks were productive and he is showing more affection towards you, maybe not a bad thing.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...