And what is different in him now so that he knows he won't decide sometime in the future that he needs a "her" again?
Saying things like "when they are done, they are done," is certainly hopeful, but not very realistic. At least not if you've spent time browsing the many threads here.
I'm glad you've had YOUR say, and to his face to boot.
I would feel better for you if he felt a similar overwhelming compulsion to have HIS say to you.
Still waiting for the sign from him that he is sorry and is once again madly in love with you.
A husband who loves his wife would have already loved his wife if you know what I mean. Don't make light of the significance of his inability to allow intimacy with you.
Caution, caution, caution....
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
