RTL, your main hang up is what people on HERE struggle to learn. Detachement. And boy, you need work on that!!
What gypsy and gucci are telling you is the ONLY way to become desired by her so even if gucci for example sounds harsh, try to remember that what you are doing isnt working and you may find out that doing this "the other way" may actually work. Stop being paranoid and let her be. K
