While a book can guide us through this process that is very foreign, only you can really know if you are done or ready to implement a LRT.
Being in the same house is a positive thing. It will give you a fine opportunity to show your H through your actions that HE is not going to be the one calling all the shots. That YOU are out and about doing things for you, enjoying life and living like you are the happiest person on the planet.
Just because you are in the same house it doesn't mean you have to share anything about where you are going or what you are doing. At this point you are both functioning as roommates and other than any common courtesy you would show a roommate is how you should approach him.
No R talks, set boundaries, be prepared to enforce them and be as fabulous as you can be. Also, be prepared for your H to NOT like this at all as it was not the reaction he was expecting. He likes the control and you can let him know through your actions you are taking back the control to your life.
