Well with these kinds of reviews I'll have to make sure I see it
I'm close enough to San Francisco to spit, so I'll check it out.
Trying to save as much as I can right now for a trip overseas next year, but you've gotta enjoy all that yu can while you can. You never know.
The moments do come to re-affirm them, but I found I had to look for them in a different way. Someitmes, it was as simple as "I really appreciate your talking with me about D's (or whatever)". And, so I didn't get stuck in "I appreciate" mode (it got to where I felt I was saying it too much), if he made a suggestion (in my case about something with D's) I would say, "good idea" and if necessary asking for more details. Even if I'd already thought of it. Why? B/c my H got to be hesitant about offering any type of ideas regarding D's. In all fairness, I didn't make it easier. That wasn't my intent, but D's live with me 24/7, he visits. You get to where you just automatically make all decisions.
Re-framing takes practice like anything. I'm really sorry, but you'll have lots of opportunities to practice.
Btw, just b/c you're a scientist doesn't mean you can't create some amazing art. Just give different mediums a shot. What have you got to lose? Great hobby that requires focus and if I'm focusing on something I'm trying to create....I can't be thinking about H.
