Thanks everyone. He is on the way up here now for the concert. I told him earlier not to come to the concert. I got the kids to lay down for another 2 hours and I did too. When We got up I called to see what time he would be here...he said he wasn't coming that I had screwed up his entire day by telling him not to come and then changing my mind. In the end, he is only coming because our oldest wants him here.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month