Hey KJ,

My son and I are doing well. Thank you for asking. Hope all is well on your end.

My son and I are getting ready to go to the zoo. It is unusually warm today. We are definitely going to take advantage of the weather.

As for my MLC'er, it has been 5 weeks since we have seen her. Last time we saw her was the week she quit her job.

The odd thing is she did call me on Sweetest Day night. I found that extremely odd since she never calls. We only communicate via text. I didn't answer so she left a voice mail.

As for my mother, we did talk about detaching. I believe that this will be a constant battle with her. She has a very difficult time grasping this. At this point, I am trying to avoid having any conservations with her about this anymore. These conversations are affecting me mentally.

My mothers motive is that she does not want me reconcile if the opportunity presents itself. She has made that very obvious.

I have made it known to her that it will be my decision to make.


Me- 31 yrs old

Her- 33 yrs old

S- 3 yrs old

Bomb- 4/ 09

Moved out- 6/ 09