You know what I think already so I won't say it again apart from to say you are strong and marvelous and can do this. Your D will thank you for it one day. I think what my mom did was fantastic and that leaving my dad was the best thing she ever did for me and my sister. She showed me what a strong woman should be.
Get legal advice and if I were you I would lose your keys whilst you were out shopping when your H is away and need to get the locks changed. Pack up his stuff and leave it for him - ship it to his brother's if you have to - otherwise you will never get rid of him. His name isn't on your rental agreement is it? I seem to remember you were going to have this place to yourself anyways and then your H wormed his way back in by sleeping in his car. If his name isn't on the agreement - CHANGE THE LOCKS. He is not gong to go easily and maybe it might be an idea to have your D stay with your parents when you initially have your H find out he really isn't going to stay with you; you never know , she might just open the door for him by accident.
You are very much in my thoughts.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength