K.. if you are reading this, people (especially men, ha!) can act in the most perverse ways. I wouldnt assume ow was a great love as you put it. Helen certainly wasnt and he risked losing me for her.
I would second that. That was exactly my experience too. It's what a lot of thers have said on the past about their sitch's also.
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Its just hard to imagine, him being intimate with another woman, but like Jack3B says, it IS an R, even if its not a lasting one.
Ditto that as well. You have to give yourself a lot of space to grieve for that loss of exclusivety and for that change. You shouldn't gloss over it, nor should you let it eat into your soul so it ruins what you have now. You are doing so well at afcing your demons and moving on. IMO NOT dealing with these issues and sweeping them under the metophorical carpet is dangerous. You sound in a good place.....even if it hurts to deal with this stuff.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
